A-Game Unfiltered

149: People Pleasing is Quietly Ruining Your Life

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew unpack the real reason so many men struggle with boundaries, burnout, and constantly putting other people first. This isn’t just about being “too nice” - it’s about understanding where people pleasing truly begins, how childhood conditioning shapes adult behaviour, and why seeking approval can quietly control your decisions, relationships, health, and happiness. If you’ve ever struggled to say no, worried what people think of you, or felt emotionally exhausted trying to keep everyone happy, this conversation will hit home.
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

148: How to Make Your Relationship Thrive

In today’s episode, Smith dives into one of the most important - and often misunderstood - areas of a person's life: romantic relationships. Whether you’re in a long-term partnership, navigating the dating world, or reflecting on what went wrong in the past, this episode breaks down the core habits that separate thriving relationships from failing ones. We explore how communication, emotional awareness, and intentional connection can transform not only your relationship, but also the way you show up.
Make the change and book a call with Adam Smith: https://calendly.com/adamsmith-agameconsultancy/meeting-with-adam-smith-a-game
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

147: 5 Truths That Will Set You Free

In this episode, Smith breaks down five uncomfortable truths that could completely change the direction of your life - if you’re willing to face them. This is for the man who looks like he’s doing well on the outside but knows something isn’t quite right underneath. If you’ve ever struggled to switch off, felt tied to your work, or questioned what success actually means to you, this one will hit differently.
Make the change and book a call with Adam Smith: https://calendly.com/adamsmith-agameconsultancy/meeting-with-adam-smith-a-game
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

146: The 5 Lies You're Telling Yourself.

In this episode, Smith breaks down one of the biggest lies men tell themselves: “I’ll do it when I feel like it.” Whether it’s training, work, or difficult conversations, waiting for motivation is often the reason nothing changes. This is about building discipline, taking action, and doing what needs to be done - regardless of how you feel.
Make the change and book a call with Adam Smith: https://calendly.com/adamsmith-agameconsultancy/meeting-with-adam-smith-a-game
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

145: The Aligned Founder

In this episode, Smith breaks down one of the biggest reasons men stay stuck: low or unclear standards. Whether it’s in your health, relationships, business or mindset, what you tolerate becomes your normal. This conversation is about raising the bar, taking ownership, and deciding what you’re no longer willing to accept.
Make the change and book a call with Adam Smith: https://calendly.com/adamsmith-agameconsultancy/meeting-with-adam-smith-a-game
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

144: You Are The Problem But Also The Solution

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew explore one of the most powerful ideas in personal development: you have control over your mind, but not over outside events. Drawing from stoic philosophy and real coaching experience, we look at why so many men allow their thoughts, beliefs and assumptions to dictate their mood, confidence and decisions - often without even realising it.
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

143: The A-Game Retreat - Powerful Beyond Measure

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew take you behind the scenes of their recent men’s retreat and unpack what really happens when you create space for honesty, vulnerability, and growth. This isn’t surface-level self-development - it’s about confronting the stories, beliefs, and past experiences that have been quietly shaping your life for years. If you’ve ever felt stuck, disconnected, or like you’re carrying more than you let on, this conversation will hit home.
To get onto the waitlist for The Aligned Founder : https://alignedfounder.scoreapp.com/
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

142: Anti-High Performance

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew take aim at the modern obsession with “high performance” and ask a simple question: are you actually improving, or are you just consuming more stuff? From stoic philosophy to the influence of Peter Crone, they unpack why chasing goals without detaching your worth from the outcome can leave you anxious, frustrated and stuck. Sometimes growth isn’t about adding more - it’s about stripping things back.
Email Us: hello@agameconsultancy.com
Adam Smith
From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he’s a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®.
Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients’ thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel.
Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/
Adam Mayhew
Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits.
Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle.
Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/
To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/